Hello everyone...I just got 2 new budgies 2 weeks ago. I have been reading this site and doing all I can to get them to get used to me but they still flutter to the top of their cage when I put my hand in. They'll eat m.spray out of my hand but even if I move my hand a little they freak out....ARG..so frustrating . Anyway, just recently in the past 2 or 3 days, my 2 budgies (one male one female I think) have been horrible to each other. They peck at each other and the male defends his space by pacing back and forth on one of the perches so the female can't hop on. They YELL at each other too! Sometimes they calm down and sit with each other but they used to be friendly to one another all the time. Why the sudden change? Will they ever love each other again? In addition, I know you're supposed to take them out, but I can't take them out until they come near me. Are they frustrated because they haven't been able to come out? Please help.