Wow you are like my pshycic twin scribblygum, i have all of the SAME problems. phones, jobs, parties, haven't gotten my lisense. Took me all I had to get through drivers ed, especially since I didn't know anyone. One time me and my mom were going to go to Olive Garden to eat, but when we got there it was packed and I made her leave just because there were so many people there.

I always thought it was something like social anxiety, but the more I experience the more I'm learning to cope with the fact that I'm going to have to meet new people no matter where I go! PM me sometime it'd be interesting to talk to you some more.